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Dating - Don't Be Passive Aggressive:
It is a common form of disobedience. Passive aggressive is a way
to be angry at someone without showing it. Passive aggressive in
all its forms will deteriorate a relationship and leave your
spouse angry, feeling spited. Whether your spouse deserves it or
not, do not be passive aggressive. Instead, if you have an issue
or are mad at your spouse the best thing to do is to tell him or
her why you are angry and how to fix the situation.
Many of us do not like conflict; we shun conflict and avoid it
at all costs. Sometimes it is not healthy to avoid conflict. It
can actually hurt us even more as we hold in angry thoughts and
feelings. If you find yourself mad at your spouse or loved one
the most healthy things to do is tell that person that you are
angry and not keep it deep inside.
Many relationships become markedly worse once people start
acting passive aggressive to one another. You wouldn't like if
someone did things to hurt you while smiling, so don't do it to
your spouse even though you might think he deserves it. The best
ways to handle your issues are out in the open. More than
likely, if you tell your spouse that you are angry at him or
her, they will try to right the wrong. If you have a respectful
relationship most people will not try to hurt one another but
will try to help one another. So the next time that you want to
act passive aggressive, stop and think and instead communicate
with your spouse instead.
About the author:
Jay is the web owner of www.singles-in.com , a website
that provides information and resources on personals, dating,
and singles.
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